25 Reasons I Owe My Mother ~

My mother taught me TO APPRECIATE A JOB WELL DONE:
"If you're going to kill each other, do it outside. I just finished cleaning!"

My mother taught me RELIGION:
"You better pray that comes out of the carpet."

My mother taught me about TIME TRAVEL:
"If you don't straighten up, I will knock you into the middle of next week!"

My mother taught me LOGIC:
"Because I said so, that's why."

My mother taught me MORE LOGIC:
"If you fall out of that swing and break your neck, you're not going to the store with me."

My mother taught me FORESIGHT:
"Make sure you wear clean underwear in case you're in an accident."

My mother taught me IRONY:
"Keep crying. I'll give you something to cry about."

My mother taught me the science of OSMOSIS:
"Shut your mouth and eat your supper."

My mother taught me about CONTORTIONISM:
"Will you look at that dirt on the back of your neck!"

My mother taught me about STAMINA:
"You'll sit there until that spinach is gone."

My mother taught me about WEATHER:
"This room looks as if a tornado went through it."

My mother taught me about HYPOCRISY:
"If I told you once, I've told you a million times. Don't exaggerate!"

My mother taught me the CIRCLE OF LIFE:
"I brought you into this world, and I can take you out."

My mother taught me about BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION:
"Stop acting like your father!"

My mother taught me about ENVY:
"There are millions of less fortunate children in this world who don't have parents like you."

My mother taught me about ANTICIPATION:
"Just wait until we get home."

My mother taught me about RECEIVING:
"You are going to get it when you get home!"

My mother taught me MEDICAL SCIENCE:
"If you don't stop crossing your eyes, they are going to freeze that way."

My mother taught me ESP:
"Put your sweater on; don't you think I know when you are cold?"

My mother taught me HUMOR:
"When that lawn mower cuts off your toes, don't come running to me."

My mother taught me HOW TO BECOME AN ADULT:
"If you don't eat your vegetables, you'll never grow up."

My mother taught me GENETICS:
"You're just like your father."

My mother taught me about my ROOTS:
"Shut that door! Were you born in a barn?"

My mother taught me WISDOM:
"When you get to be my age, you'll understand."

And my fav-o-rite~

My mother taught me about JUSTICE:
"One day you'll have kids, and they'll be twice as bad as you."

Just Another Trigger Moment

Julie Conn.
A second grade teacher at Holtville Elementary.
My home-away-from-home for twenty years.
She taught down the hall from me.
Always had a smile, a hug, a dear friend.
She came into Cute As A Button last week,
looking for an outfit for her newborn son.
I turned around to greet a customer,
and it was Julie. Jules. My Jules, from 'that time'.
My counselor calls these moments trigger moments.
When my throat closes, the headache begins,
speech becomes labored, my thought process jumbled.
I wanted to cry, to hold onto her, to be back there,
to be back in Room 33, beside Lisa,
across the hall from Jackie and Deborah;
to live at 204 Spruce, the home Johnny and I loved,
to have it all 'not have happened'.
So much rushed me at once
that for a moment, or two,
all I could do was stare at her.
And remember. And hurt.
We talked, we hugged, I saw the baby,
she left. I remembered.
And I grieved. And cried.
Will it ever.get.better?
Will I ever, ever get to the point
that it.won't.hurt?
Logic tells me the house at Spruce was too big,
too much upkeep for a disabled retiree.
But my heart tells me
had the accident not happened,
we would still be there. Still sitting in the swing,
on the deck John built, and I loved.
I would still be teaching next door to my best friend
and learning from seven and eight year old
angels in little children bodies. Do I miss the day to day
routine, the parental worries, the paperwork?
You bet I do. I always will. It was a passion. It was me.
Honestly, I don't know if it will ever get better.
It will be three years tomorrow.
We are in a new home.
Another new home, as a matter of fact.
And Life is different. As much as he tries,
and as much as they try,
and as much as I try,
it will always be different.
And God help me,
I want it back. There are times
I ache I literally ache,
to have Life the way it used to be.
My heart tells me I have much
to be thankful for; much to enjoy;
much to find delight in. And yes,
retirement has freed me up for other things,
and I cling to the understanding
that He never, ever, allows anything to happen
that He doesn't offer some means of bringing
Glory and Praise to His Name.
But my heart still breaks,
when those trigger moments occur.
So if I see you at some point, and you wonder
why I fumble, why tears slide, why I stare~
just know you have triggered a moment
for a past I miss with my whole heart.
And I continue telling myself,
it will get easier.
And then,
I go to my Jenny's family blog,
and she has this photograph of Noah.
And I read her words with the picture,
"Run, Forrest, run!"
And I laughed.
Through the tears brought from writing to you,
I laughed remembering what I had seen on her blog.
So I have brought it to you for your laughter.
God works in beautiful, mysterious ways.
"My soul doth magnify the Lord.
And my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Saviour."

Go, Noah! "Run, Forrest, run!"
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He's a Hunk

Meet Jonah.
He's a hunk.
A future model.
You can say you saw him here first.

A-Day Spring Football Game~

A grim forecast of rain didn't stop an estimated 84,050 Crimson Tide fans from attending today's practice game at Bryant-Denny Stadium! ESPN brought it to national television and Tuscaloosa rocked once more as another record was set. Today's attendance was the second highest A-Day game in school history, and the second largest crowd to witness a spring game at any SEC school. The first was the 92,138+ fans, that arrived in 2007 at Tuscaloosa, with many being turned away at the gate. Last years game drew 78,200, the third largest crowd at any SEC school. {John wanted to be there badly, but a fishing tournament and work put a stop to those plans. I was downtown in the shoppe all day, but kept informed with customers wearing the colors and listening to newscasts.} Previous best is believed to be Tennessee's 73,000 in 1986 and we nearly doubled Florida's 47,5000 in 2007. Today's practice game brings an end to Spring Practice and we wait now for the games to begin!

There's something about football that stirs my blood. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that the guy I loved in high school was a football player and I was a cheerleader, or the fact that I married a guy that was his high school's quarterback and our main rival. I will always remember Marbury High School Friday night games and Saturday's Alabama and Auburn college games. It just doesn't get any better ~

Do They Hear Us?

Do you think they will listen?
Here are a few snapshots
from a local tea party
held in Montgomery~
Let the people be seen~
Let our voices be heard~

We were not able to attend a local rally, but thanks to all of you that did!

And Some More Easter~

Three of the most adorable men in my life ~along with our baby girl and her precious man,
and the child she is carrying ~
makes for one blessed woman ~ me ~
and with Noah waving 'hey, Nan'
I bid you a good night,
and may your tomorrow
be even better than today ~

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Jonah & Sister, Claire

This adorable young man,
Jonah

and his precious twin, Claire

are the grandbabies of one of my dearest friends, Lynne Griffies
and her husband, Allen.
They were too cute not to post on today!
Lynne is an accomplished photographer
and we have plans this summer
to gather some of her shots
and publish a coffee table book!
Stay tuned and remember,
you first heard about her book here!

Family & Friends~

Here are some snapshots I have confiscated.
Our princess in Mississippi, Alaina~
We were able to spend time with them Saturday
and it is always such fun for us.
I'm hoping that Stacey has some snapshots
to send me from our time with them.
I forgot our camera, rats, but she had hers!
Austin ~ don't you know he really wants to be
somewhere else? "Okay, mom, hurry."
Ian liked the Easter bunny.
Noah did not.
Two of our three daughters,
Leslie & Stacey~
we are truly blessed.
Now I need for Jenny to send me the snapshots
she took at her house Sunday~
and here are some dear friends
that we miss a lot!
Hey Buck's!!
it's about time to get together again!!!

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Elle Elizabeth Maddox~

We will be celebrating with Jenny & her family after worship this afternoon. There will be additional thanksgiving offered for the apparent health of the child they are expecting, along with the latest news that this grandchild is a baby girl, of which her two brothers had no doubt that this was indeed a 'baby sister'. I look forward to being with them, and sincerely hope that today will be a beautiful Easter for you as well. Happy Easter everyone~


We're home!
Back from Mississippi,
and finding out the gender of
our newest grandchild!
Celebrating Leslie's birthday!
Watching Austin & Ian playing,
Alaina dressing in her princess outfit,
and Noah loving the trains!
A beautiful day for driving, for laughing,
loving, sharing, and finding out
if we're having a grandson or grandaughter!
{You'll have to wait for Jenny to post
before you read it here!}

Stay tuned.
News & snapshots coming!!

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Making Dreams Work~

It's always heart warming to me to read of inspirations in our world and I read of another one this morning. The Feathered Nest is a spot I love to visit and I always leave a better person for having brought a bit of Dawn Edmonson back with me. She has written of a friend of hers that came to the edge of losing her business, only to work hard, do without, and make a return with hard work, determination, and faith. She did this without a government bailout or whining. Here's a bit about her ~Dawn Dallaire ~ the owner of Clearly Fun Soap; successful business owner. Dawn was awarded Business Person of the Year for Georgia in 2008 and right after winning, lost $200,00 dollars when Linen 'N Things went belly up and bailed on debts. Dawn's company overhead was drastically affected, and she went without a paycheck for nine months (take THAT overpriced execs, AIG, GMC and Ford MotorCompany!). Slowly, but surely, Clearly Fun Soap is recovering. A wonderful team of workers, and family members are bringing it back. CNN and Brook Baldwin recently interviewed Dawn to learn more of her survival story.

Visit her website. The soaps are too cute, shipping and handling are cheap, and you'll be helping someone much like yourself. I think you'll want a bit of everything, just as I do!

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For you Bunco girlfriends, check this soap out!! Bunco Babe Bar Soap ~ you gotta have it!

The bunnies will be coming soon,
to hide eggs and leave tasty chocolates~
where will you find your hidden eggs?
and where will you have your Easter lunch?

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~ from The Letter Writer ~

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